One of the common questions I get when I do relationship coaching is; how to keep a narcissist interested in you? Narcissists have a habit of devaluing and discarding their relationship partner sometimes for no obvious reasons. Some people get confused by this behaviour and wonder what they can do to prevent the narcissist from …
Life problems and difficulties are inevitable, that’s why we need emotional strength in order to stand strong in the face of adversity. Emotionally strong people do face harsh life problems like everybody. The difference between an emotionally strong person and normal people is that the type of problem that would break a normal person may …
Narcissistic emotional abuse can have really bad psychological impacts on the person being abusive especially if he was subjected to the abuse for long. Sometimes the psychological wounds caused by this abuse can last for lifetime if nothing was done to heal them. Some people think that leaving the abusive partner alone is enough for …
Can someone help a narcissist heal? Can a narcissist change if his emotional wounds healed? Because most of the people I coach are people who live with a narcissist, sometimes they ask me what they should do to help the narcissist they live with get over the emotional wounds that turned him into a narcissist. …
We live in a society where we have to behave, dress and live according to the norms in order to be considered normal and sane by others. When you do something or behave in a way that some people think is not appropriate, they may call you names like stupid, weirdo, foolish etc. Out of …
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Some people wonder if living with a narcissist can make them develop narcissistic personality traits such as lack of empathy. Since narcissism is not inherited, it makes sense to be worried about turning into a narcissist. In my previous article I said that children raised by narcissistic parents are more likely to become narcissists. Sometimes …
Contrary to what many people believe, narcissists are not difficult to read provided that you know what to look for. Some people think that narcissists only love themselves and not capable of loving anyone but that’s not 100% true. While it’s true that narcissists love themselves so much, they do feel attraction and love towards …
Making a narcissist addicted to you will not only make them love you but it will also make them value you more. Narcissists are best known for charming and attracting people to themselves but this does not mean that they can’t be played once you understand how their mind works. You might be thinking that …
To understand well why narcissists are so mean, I would like you to recall the last time someone hurt you. You probably felt angry and wished to see that person suffer and pay for their mistakes, right? You do not only feel emotionally disconnected from the person who has hurt you but you also wish …
Self-esteem is a crucial factor in every person’s mental health. Low self-esteem can make a person shy, feel worthless or even become a narcissist. In my article about narcissists and gaslighting , I said that abusive narcissists usually target their victim’s self-esteem because when it’s ruined, the victim becomes easy to control and manipulate. Narcissists …
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