How to Deal With a Gaslighting Narcissist

Gaslighting can have really bad psychological effects on the person being gaslighted especially if he or she didn’t understand the intentions of the gaslighter. To deal with a gaslighting narcissist or any other gaslighter, it’s important to understand their motives and intentions first, which I discussed in the previous post. You can read it first …

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Narcissistic Gaslighting: Why do Narcissists Gaslight?

Gaslighting is a method of abuse used by narcissists and other abusers to keep their target psychologically off balance. Gaslighting usually involves the abuser trying to make the victim doubt his or her own sanity, perception, memory and self-worth. The abuser persistently questions the victim’s behaviour, personality and mental attitude till the victim starts to …

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Is it Bad to be a Loner

I guess you may have heard the phrase “humans are social beings by nature” several times. Of course it’s 100% true that humans are social by nature and need each other to survive, but does this mean that it’s bad to be a loner? In today’s world you don’t need a strong social life to …

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Why Are Some Narcissists Pathological While Others Are Healthy? Pathological VS Healthy Narcissism

Narcissism does not only exist on a spectrum but also in types. While there is mild to severe narcissism, there is also pathological and healthy narcissism. Before you know what make some narcissists pathological and others healthy, let me first briefly define both of them. Pathological narcissists are the mentally ill type of narcissists. Most …

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Do Narcissists Care If You Move on

Do narcissists care if their ex moves on? A simple answer is yes but not always. Narcissists’ self-esteem, satisfaction with life and happiness greatly depends on the position they think they hold in other people’s mind. Of course we all do care about other people’s opinion to a certain extent, but the difference between a …

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Why are Some People so Manipulative

Manipulation is not always a bad thing. We all manipulate people around us without even realizing. When was the last time you approached someone smiling even though you were not feeling that happy? You smiled because you wanted to get a positive feedback and have a smooth conversation right? Manipulation is not a bad thing …

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How to Get a Narcissist Back

Most often a relationship with a narcissist goes through idealisation, devaluation and ends with discard. Although a narcissist can idealise, devalue and discard their partner several times without actually ending the relationship. This means that you can still get a narcissist back even if they discarded you. In this article I will mainly focus on …

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