Trying to get attention from a narcissist who is constantly ignoring you can be so frustrating especially if you don’t know why they are ignoring you. For this reason, most people usually decide to pull back and start ignoring the narcissist as well. Chasing someone who doesn’t care can badly damage your self-esteem if you […]
Before I explain how a narcissist chooses his wife let me first explain how a person’s psychological makeup affects every choice they make in life. Every person in the world has some unconscious needs that they strive to fulfil. Some of these needs include: the need for attention, the need to be the best, the
When a narcissist wants you back, they usually use many manipulative tactics in order to make you fall in love with them again. Some people believe that narcissists use calculated manipulations to get you back so that they keep abusing you but that’s not true. Most of the time, narcissists don’t actually plan to manipulate
The title of this article may sound ironic but it’s actually not. So, why would anyone want to make a narcissist happy? In some of my previous posts, I said that a narcissist’s behavior is a direct reflection of the emotions they are experiencing. An abusive narcissist is nothing but a person who is not
In reality, losing everything can be emotionally devastating to anyone whether they have a personality disorder like narcissism or not. However, the difference between narcissists and normal people is that a narcissist’s whole identity, self-worth, happiness, or even mental health can depend on external factors such as their wealth or popularity. This means that for
An empath is someone who is highly sensitive to external stimuli. This does not only make them feel the emotions and pain of other people but they also get affected by external factors that hardly affect normal people. For example, raising your voice at an empath can badly hurt them, let alone yelling at them.
You may be thinking that blame-shifting is just another manipulation tactic that narcissists use to control you but that’s not true. Actually narcissists don’t blame others all the time, instead, they usually start to blame you when they find themselves losing control or when they face a situation they can’t handle. From the outside, the
When you hurt a narcissist they usually devalue you to make you feel worthless and unimportant. This devaluation may come in the form of criticism, verbal abuse or just silent treatment. Most often, the silent treatment is meant to make you regret hurting them. But what happens when you give a narcissist the silent treatment
To understand well how narcissists react when you stop chasing them, let me first explain why people in general feel bad when someone stops loving them. If you think that the main reason why we feel bad when someone rejects us is because we loved that person so much then you are only partially correct.
Narcissists are well known for their automatic response of devaluing or discarding their partner whenever there’s a conflict that affects the narcissist’s ego. But, what happens when you discard a narcissist first? How do they feel and what do they do? How a narcissist feels when you discard them greatly depends on how important you’re