Abusive narcissists may look stronger and powerful on the surface but inside they are usually weaker than the victim. An abusive narcissist is usually someone whom life has treated badly but instead of directing the life disappointments, anger and all the bad emotions associated with life problems towards seeking solutions they decide to direct this …
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One of the common questions I get when I do relationship coaching is; how to keep a narcissist interested in you? Because narcissists usually devalue and discard their relationship partner sometimes for not obvious reasons, some people get confused by this behaviour and wonder what they can do to prevent the narcissist from devaluing or …
Narcissistic emotional abuse can have really bad psychological impacts on the person being abusive especially if he was subjected to the abuse for long. Sometimes the psychological wounds caused by this abuse can last for lifetime if nothing was done to heal them. Some people think that leaving the abusive partner alone is enough for …
Can a narcissist heal? Can a narcissist change if his emotional wounds healed? Because most of the people I coach are people who live with a narcissist, sometimes they ask me what they should do to help the narcissist they live with get over the emotional wounds that turned him into a narcissist. That’s why …
We live in a society where we have to behave, dress and live according to the norms in order to be considered normal and sane by others. When you do something or behave in a way that some people think is not appropriate, they may call you names like stupid, weirdo, foolish etc. Out of …
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Some people wonder if living with a narcissist can make them adopt narcissistic personality traits like lack of empathy, being self-absorbed, being vindictive etc. After all narcissism is not genetically inherited but it’s developed as a result of going through an unusual life experience. Sometimes it happens that someone searches online for narcissism personality traits …
Contrary to what many people think, narcissists are not difficult to read provided that you know what to look for. Some people assume that narcissists only love themselves and not capable of loving anyone but that’s not 100% true. While it’s true that narcissists love themselves so much, they do feel attraction and love towards …
Making a narcissist addicted to you will not only make them love you but it can also make them value you. Narcissists are famously known for charming and attracting people but this does not mean that they can’t be played once you understand how their mind works. You might be thinking that you must be …
To understand well why narcissists can be so mean, I would like you to recall the last time someone emotionally hurt you. Most probably you felt angry and wished to see the person who hurt you suffer and pay for his mistake. You do not only feel emotionally disconnected from the person who hurt you …
Self-esteem is very important to every person’s psychological well-being. Low self-esteem can make a person shy, feel worthless or even become a narcissist. In my article about narcissists and gaslighting , I said that abusive narcissists usually target their victim’s self-esteem because once it’s ruined, the victim becomes easy to control and manipulate. Narcissists themselves …
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